Live Life On Your Own Terms in 2020 - How To Set Goals And Achieve Success In The New Year And The New Decade ...Even If You've Struggled With New Years Resolutions In The Past
Two weeks into the new year and a new decade, how are your New Years resolutions working out for you? Are you sticking with them, or are you part of the statistic that says that majority of people (80%) will have abandoned their New Years resolutions by February?
The numbers vary, but regardless of whether it's 21 or 66 days to form a habit, 14 days into 2020 is a good time to re-evaluate your goals and to re-commit to them. Or to set fresh goals, if you haven't yet, because as they say, if you aim at nothing, you'll hit it every time.
A few days ago I wrote an in-depth blog post on goal setting for Happy Leo Designs and I'd like to share the guiding principles and specific actionable steps with you here as well. I think that a lot of you will find these helpful and valuable. At least that is my hope and motivation behind this blog post!
You can view the full original blog post here or by clicking on the image above, but here is the distilled, super easy to follow, actionable version.
Be sure to write down your answers as you go along!
TWO GUIDING PRINCIPLES TO BASE YOUR DECISIONS ON
What Does Success Mean To You?
Once you’ve written down your personal definition of success, find a way to display it in a place where you’ll see it every day.
Who Do You Want To Become?
Once you’ve decided on this, stick to making decisions that will shape you into the person you wish to become.
SETTING GOALS FOR 2020
Write down what didn’t work and what didn’t go right in 2019.
Write down what did work and what did go right in 2019.
What thoughts dominated your 2019? Can you see the connection between your answers to Questions 1, 2 and 3?
Commit to working on your needle-movers and obsess on your Not-To-Do list.
Be honest. Where are you in life?
Where do you want to go by the end of 2020? How about 2030?
Attach emotions to achieving your goals. How will you feel once you achieve your goals? How will you feel if you don’t?
What new capabilities do you need to gain to achieve your goals?
Attach power phrases to your goals.
What routines can you start right now that can set you up for the process of creating momentum? What’s your first step towards success?
5 BONUS WAYS TO MAKE YOUR 2020 SUCCESSFUL
What’s the story you told yourself in 2019 that held you back?
What should get your attention in 2020?
What should you stop doing in 2020?
What is the biggest challenge / obstacle / fear from 2019 that you must face to be successful in 2020?
How can you unlock more / greater happiness in 2020? Success comes faster with happiness!
I hope that you found these guiding principles and specific goal setting steps helpful!
I’d love to hear what your ambitions and goals are for 2020, so please share in the comments below or email them to me - accountability works and I’m always happy to encourage and support you to level up!
And if self-development and business growth are part of your 2020 goals, I am currently creating an incredible Mastermind, which will kick off with an in-person retreat in the Canadian Rockies this summer! You definitely don’t want to miss this amazing opportunity to grow, learn, connect and to plug into a community of diverse, ambitious humans to help you reach your goals in 2020!
This will be a small, hand-picked group and registration isn’t open yet, but if you’d like to be considered as an early applicant, please fill out our contact form using Mastermind as the subject.
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